"Everyone who's ever taken a shower has an idea. It's the person who gets out of the shower, dries off and does something about it who makes a difference."
Judy Brady Judy Brady was born in 1937 in San Francisco and was educated at the University of Iowa where she received her B.F.A. in 1962. She became a free-lance writer during the 1960s and has written articles on such issues as abortion, education, and the labor and women's movements for variety of publications. The provocative essay reprinted here first appeared in Ms. magazine in 1971 and has become a classic of feminist satire.
Why I Want a Wife
"According to the dictionary, a wife is a "woman married to a man." But, as many women know, a wife is much more: coo, housekeeper, nutritionist, chauffeur, friend, sex partner, valet, nurse, social secretary, ego-builder, and more. Rather than complains why she herself would like to have a wife.
I belong to that classification of people known as wives. I am a Wife. And, not altogether incidentally, I am a mother.
Not too long ago a male friend of mine appeared on the scene from the Midwest fresh from a recent divorce. He had one child, who is, of course, with his ex-wife. He is obviously looking for another wife. As I thought about him while I was ironing one evening, it suddenly occurred to me that I, too, would like to have a wife. Why do I want a wife?
I would like to go back to school, so that I can become economically independent, support myself, and, if need be, support those dependent upon me. I want a wife who will work and send me to school. And while I am going to school I want a wife to take care of my children. I want a wife to keep track of the children's doctor and dentist appointments. And to keep track of mine, too. I want a wife to make sure my children eat properly and are kept clean. I want a wife who will wash the children's clothes and keep them mended. I want a wife who is a good nurturant attendant to my children, arranges for their schooling, makes sure that they adequate social life with their peers, takes them to the park, the zoo, etc. I want a wife who takes care of the children when they are sick, a wife who arrenges to be around when the children need special care, because, of course, I cannot miss classes at school. My wife must arrange to lose time at work and not lose the job. It may mean a small cut in my wife's income from time to time, but I guess I can tolerate that. Needless to say, my wife will arrange and pay for the care of the children while my wife is working.
I want a wife who will take care of my physical needs. I want a wife who will keep my house clean. A wife who will pick up after my children, a wife who will pick up after me. I want a wife who will keep my clothes clean, ironed, mended, replaced when need be, and who will see to it that my personal things are kept in their proper place so that I can find what I need the minute I need it. I want a wife who cooks the meals, a wife who is a good cook. I want a wife who will plan the menus, do the necessary grocery shoping, prepare the meals, serve them pleasantly, and then do the cleaning up while I do my studying. I want a wife who will care for me when I am sick and sympathize with my pain and loss of time from school. I want a wife to go along when our family takes a vacation so that someone can continue to care for me and my children when I need a rest and a change of scene.
I want a wife who will take care of details of my social life. When my wife and I are invited out by my friends, I want a wife who will take care of the babysitting arrangements. When I meet people at school that I like and want to certain, I want a wife who will have the house clean, will prepare a special meal, serve it to me and my friends, and not interrupt when I talk about the things that interest me and my friends. I want a wife who will have arranged that the children are fed and ready for bed before my guests arrive so that the children do not bother us. I want a wife who takes care of the needs of my guests so that they feel comfortable, who makes sure that they have an ashtray, that they are passed the hors d'oeuvres, that they helping of the food, that their wine glasses are replenished when necessary, that their coffee is served to them as they like it. And I want a wife who knows that sometimes I need a night ot by myself.
I want a wife who is sensitive to my sexual needs, a wife who makes love passionately and eagerly when I feel like it, a wife who makes sure that I am satisfied. And, of course, I want a wife who will not demand sexual attention when I am not in the mood for it. I want a wife who assumes the complete responsibility for birth control, because I do not want more children. I want a wife who will remain sexually faithful to me so that I do not have to clutter up my intellectual life with jealousies. And I want a wife who understands that my sexual needs may entail more than strict adherence to monogamy. I must, after all, be able to ralate to people as fully as possible.
If, by chance, I find another person more suitable as a wife than the wife I already have, I want the liberty to replace my present wife with another one. Naturally, I will expect a fresh, new life; my wife will take the children and be solely responsible for them so that I am left free.
When I am through with school and have acquired a job, I want my wife to quit working and remain at home so that my wife can moree fully and completely take care of a wife's duities.
erzulie This is actually a monthly publication during the 50s. They were spreading the love back then.
a3sab ليش يبا.. ترى أنا رجعي ومتخلف.. لا يغرج
ولادة كفو والله.. هذا العشم
Hanan Ee wallah good old days!
I don't think I want someone like that, I don't like the 50s clothes or hair dews :P I wouldn't mind someone taking a few points from the article, like putting a ribbon on her hair or not questioning my judgement :P
bo9ali7 فعلاً يبيله
erzulie I think a lot in there.
White Wings Me too! Bs not the kids, for now.
Note to All يحاول البعض تشويه صورتنا في مجتمع المدونات من خلال إثارة أمور لم يألفها مجتمعنا، كالرجل الملاكم. فمجتمعنا -المحافظ بطبيعته- لم يذكر وجود ملاكمين بين أجدادنا الغواصة أو من كان منهم في البادية. رياييل قبل غواصة وبناية ونواخذة.
ولمن لم يعجبه كلامي أقول أنني سأواصل النضال للحفاظ على ثوابت الأمة دون أن تأخذني في الله لومة لائم.
في حديث قبل يومين مع صديق، قال أن الإسلام والغرب لا يختلفان فكل منهم أتى بقالب للمرأة بهذا الشكل. وللنساء المتبرجات نقول، إن أتينا لكم بالدين استنكرتم وتشدقتم بالغرب (حلوة تشدقتم).. وهانحن نأتيكم بالبرهان من الغرب الكافر.. أفلا تتعظون؟
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lol wutever !!
mbarak 3leik ishahar =)
LOL I've seen it before on another blog. Still offensively funny though :-p
hehhehehhehehehheh
ترى تنحش الأوادم منك شذي
بس ما أقول إلا أشوه احنا مو حريم قبل
وأشوه انكم ما لحقتوا على حريم قبل
كيفي .. نحاسة
ونسيت
ميارك عليك الشهر
يا ملحك بس
Nano
الملح يقطر
I took a "Women's Lit" class this summer.
Our professor had a copy of a textbook from the 50's and it was almost exactly the same type of cr@p that is shown here.
I think it was a home ed. textbook...
افاااا ما هقيتها منك
:-)
ليش أعصاب؟
أنا وأنتِ جذي؟ مو؟
:)
Aawwww. The good old 50's.
Don't you just wish you could have such a woman?
الله..يبييييله والله
.
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ومبارك عليكم الشهر
Off-topic question...
Why "The Shower"?
read this article:
Judy Brady
Judy Brady was born in 1937 in San Francisco and was educated at the University of Iowa where she received her B.F.A. in 1962. She became a free-lance writer during the 1960s and has written articles on such issues as abortion, education, and the labor and women's movements for variety of publications. The provocative essay reprinted here first appeared in Ms. magazine in 1971 and has become a classic of feminist satire.
Why I Want a Wife
"According to the dictionary, a wife is a "woman married to a man." But, as many women know, a wife is much more: coo, housekeeper, nutritionist, chauffeur, friend, sex partner, valet, nurse, social secretary, ego-builder, and more. Rather than complains why she herself would like to have a wife.
I belong to that classification of people known as wives. I am a Wife. And, not altogether incidentally, I am a mother.
Not too long ago a male friend of mine appeared on the scene from the Midwest fresh from a recent divorce. He had one child, who is, of course, with his ex-wife. He is obviously looking for another wife. As I thought about him while I was ironing one evening, it suddenly occurred to me that I, too, would like to have a wife. Why do I want a wife?
I would like to go back to school, so that I can become economically independent, support myself, and, if need be, support those dependent upon me. I want a wife who will work and send me to school. And while I am going to school I want a wife to take care of my children. I want a wife to keep track of the children's doctor and dentist appointments. And to keep track of mine, too. I want a wife to make sure my children eat properly and are kept clean. I want a wife who will wash the children's clothes and keep them mended. I want a wife who is a good nurturant attendant to my children, arranges for their schooling, makes sure that they adequate social life with their peers, takes them to the park, the zoo, etc. I want a wife who takes care of the children when they are sick, a wife who arrenges to be around when the children need special care, because, of course, I cannot miss classes at school. My wife must arrange to lose time at work and not lose the job. It may mean a small cut in my wife's income from time to time, but I guess I can tolerate that. Needless to say, my wife will arrange and pay for the care of the children while my wife is working.
I want a wife who will take care of my physical needs. I want a wife who will keep my house clean. A wife who will pick up after my children, a wife who will pick up after me. I want a wife who will keep my clothes clean, ironed, mended, replaced when need be, and who will see to it that my personal things are kept in their proper place so that I can find what I need the minute I need it. I want a wife who cooks the meals, a wife who is a good cook. I want a wife who will plan the menus, do the necessary grocery shoping, prepare the meals, serve them pleasantly, and then do the cleaning up while I do my studying. I want a wife who will care for me when I am sick and sympathize with my pain and loss of time from school. I want a wife to go along when our family takes a vacation so that someone can continue to care for me and my children when I need a rest and a change of scene.
I want a wife who will take care of details of my social life. When my wife and I are invited out by my friends, I want a wife who will take care of the babysitting arrangements. When I meet people at school that I like and want to certain, I want a wife who will have the house clean, will prepare a special meal, serve it to me and my friends, and not interrupt when I talk about the things that interest me and my friends. I want a wife who will have arranged that the children are fed and ready for bed before my guests arrive so that the children do not bother us. I want a wife who takes care of the needs of my guests so that they feel comfortable, who makes sure that they have an ashtray, that they are passed the hors d'oeuvres, that they helping of the food, that their wine glasses are replenished when necessary, that their coffee is served to them as they like it. And I want a wife who knows that sometimes I need a night ot by myself.
I want a wife who is sensitive to my sexual needs, a wife who makes love passionately and eagerly when I feel like it, a wife who makes sure that I am satisfied. And, of course, I want a wife who will not demand sexual attention when I am not in the mood for it. I want a wife who assumes the complete responsibility for birth control, because I do not want more children. I want a wife who will remain sexually faithful to me so that I do not have to clutter up my intellectual life with jealousies. And I want a wife who understands that my sexual needs may entail more than strict adherence to monogamy. I must, after all, be able to ralate to people as fully as possible.
If, by chance, I find another person more suitable as a wife than the wife I already have, I want the liberty to replace my present wife with another one. Naturally, I will expect a fresh, new life; my wife will take the children and be solely responsible for them so that I am left free.
When I am through with school and have acquired a job, I want my wife to quit working and remain at home so that my wife can moree fully and completely take care of a wife's duities.
My God, who wouldn't want a wife ? "
truly, i want a wife as well :)
Mother Courage
3alaina o 3alaich :)
adorra
I got it by email.
Offensively?:P
alia
إي حاس إني قاعد أنحشهم
أنا هم أقول أشوه
:)
ham alia
علينا وعليج :)
nanonano
حدي
لاحظتي إن حريم قبل ما عندهم يوغا؟
:P
shurouq
أشكرة!
erzulie
This is actually a monthly publication during the 50s. They were spreading the love back then.
a3sab
ليش يبا.. ترى أنا رجعي ومتخلف.. لا يغرج
ولادة
كفو والله.. هذا العشم
Hanan
Ee wallah good old days!
I don't think I want someone like that, I don't like the 50s clothes or hair dews :P
I wouldn't mind someone taking a few points from the article, like putting a ribbon on her hair or not questioning my judgement :P
bo9ali7
فعلاً يبيله
erzulie
I think a lot in there.
White Wings
Me too!
Bs not the kids, for now.
Note to All
يحاول البعض تشويه صورتنا في مجتمع المدونات من خلال إثارة أمور لم يألفها مجتمعنا، كالرجل الملاكم. فمجتمعنا -المحافظ بطبيعته- لم يذكر وجود ملاكمين بين أجدادنا الغواصة أو من كان منهم في البادية.
رياييل قبل غواصة وبناية ونواخذة.
ولمن لم يعجبه كلامي أقول أنني سأواصل النضال للحفاظ على ثوابت الأمة دون أن تأخذني في الله لومة لائم.
في حديث قبل يومين مع صديق، قال أن الإسلام والغرب لا يختلفان فكل منهم أتى بقالب للمرأة بهذا الشكل.
وللنساء المتبرجات نقول، إن أتينا لكم بالدين استنكرتم وتشدقتم بالغرب (حلوة تشدقتم)..
وهانحن نأتيكم بالبرهان من الغرب الكافر.. أفلا تتعظون؟
أنا أقول، قرن في بيوتكن.. آل روكي آل
ايه .. راحوا حريم قبل
ومبارك عليك الشهر
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